Tween and Tween years (10-15)

Establishing healthy communication between parent and child is key. Do you encourage your kid to come talk to you about anything they see on their screens? Have you established yourself as a safe place that they can approach without worrying that you will scold them and take away their devices? 

As awkward as it may be, being upfront with your tween and early teen about content that is inappropriate for them and why, is the best preparation you can make as a parent today.  

According to local Film Classification Guidelines, shows with a G rating do not depict any nudity. At a PG or PG-13 rating, depictions of rear or side profile nudity in a non-sexual context may be presented.  

However, unlike at the cinemas where IDs can be asked for, no one is checking your child’s age before they choose a show on Netflix, YouTube and other content providers that bring content directly to your home. In fact, as your child grows into a teenager, he or she is probably having a lot more unsupervised screen time. So, make it a point to have conversations about what they watch.  

Continue to revisit boundaries and values your family holds on to. Avoid using fear as a deterrent. Instead, always provide the Why behind the What, for example, talk to them about modesty, explaining that their bodies are precious and private, so they do not share it with anyone freely. Similarly, it is not right for us to see the nakedness of others.   

You can also teach them to check their own motives by asking themselves: Why do I want to watch this show? How do these scenes make me feel? Do I want watch this because all my friends are watching?  

Help them connect their responses with their values so that when they do face tricky situations in life, they can lean on their convictions to guide their actions.  
  
Finally, teach them to respond fast when they are in uncomfortable situations: When a scene comes on that falls outside of what they should view, turn it off immediately or walk away.