How to scratch that 7-year itch and save a marriage
The Straits Times Republished with Permission 25 July 2025
Ms Alicia Boo, principal counsellor at Focus on the Family Singapore, explains that this is the period that tends to coincide with stressful life transitions, such as first-time parenthood or a midlife career switch.
“During such transitions, couples may find they have a lot to juggle – from career to child-rearing to managing finances, and caring for elderly parents. These stressors, when compounded by the lack of communication and conflict resolution skills, may lead to the marriage being stretched thin and cracks appearing,” she says.
“Hence, it is important to grow together in marriage and stay connected to each other,” she adds.
Nelson and Gina Lee have been accredited facilitators with Focus on the Family Singapore for over a decade, beginning their involvement conducting relationship talks for tertiary students since 2011.
Driven by a passion for nurturing strong relationships, they have extensive experience in facilitating dating workshops for courting couples and pre-marital programmes for those considering marriage. They have also have led marriage retreats designed to deepen connection and commitment among married couples.