How to bring the kids on vacation without losing your mind
The Straits Times Republished with Permission 22 November 2025
Holidays can stir up big feelings – excitement, fatigue, even frustration. Instead of focusing only on creating the “perfect” experience, invite your child to share how they feel and validate those emotions. A simple “I can see you’re tired and upset” goes a long way in helping them feel understood.
Over time (and with more practice travelling), they will learn to regulate their feelings better.
Nelson and Gina Lee have been accredited facilitators with Focus on the Family Singapore for over a decade, beginning their involvement conducting relationship talks for tertiary students since 2011.
Driven by a passion for nurturing strong relationships, they have extensive experience in facilitating dating workshops for courting couples and pre-marital programmes for those considering marriage. They have also have led marriage retreats designed to deepen connection and commitment among married couples.