Published on 18 June, 2025
We all dream of perfect love stories—the kind promised in classic romantic comedies and fairytales: meet-cutes, effortless chemistry, and ‘happily ever afters’ where problems magically disappear. But what happens when reality hits? When distance stretches thin, grief suffocates, or family expectations weigh heavy? When giving up feels easier than holding on?
Tom Lin’s Worth the Wait isn’t a typical rom-com fantasy. Instead, it offers an unflinchingly honest journey into the true battlefield of relationships. We meet Curtis (Sung Kang), a rideshare driver raising his niece Riley (Ali Fumiko Whitney), who’s secretly dating Blake (Ricky He). We witness Theresa (Karena Lam) and Nathan (Osric Chau) grapple with profound loss, watch anxiously as Amanda (Elodie Yung) and Scott (Andrew Koji) try to rekindle love, and follow Kai (Ross Butler) and Leah (Lana Condor) as they navigate a long-distance relationship.
As their stories unfold, the film explores raw emotional aftermaths, exposed vulnerabilities, and the complex pressures of family. It forced me to ask: When life challenges everything we know, what does love really look like?
Here are 3 takeaways that have reshaped my perspective on love:
Worth the Wait reminds me that love isn’t something that just happens and isn’t just a feeling. It’s something we choose, again and again, even in the quiet, difficult moments when walking away seems easier.
Leah says it best: “I don’t need magical. I need real, messy, honest life.” Riley, too, finds a space where she can cry, laugh, and be herself. There’s something profound and safe about being fully known—even in your worst moments—and still being fully loved.
Kai’s line, “Meeting you was not in my life plan. But choosing you is definitely in my life plan,” captures this beautifully. He flies halfway across the world not because love is easy, but because he decides it’s worth the fight. Life will inevitably present challenges, and sometimes feelings fade – we have the choice to stay and fight for the relationship or to run away. Relationships thrive on the minute daily decisions to stay, to communicate, and to grow together no matter what life throws our way.
Love isn’t magically found—it’s chosen and formed through the ups and downs of life.
We often chase the big milestones—anniversaries, proposals, marriage. But Worth the Wait argues that love is forged in the in-between: the long, quiet stretches between beginnings and endings. If we only wait for a picture-perfect story, we miss the quiet miracles happening in those seemingly mundane everyday moments of sustained effort.
Theresa and Nathan’s story is a heart-wrenching portrayal of love and loss. After the devastating loss of their child, the couple struggles to stay afloat under the weight of the grief. The temptation to ignore the pain and retreat into silence is overwhelming.
As I watched them struggle, I was confronted by the fear of loss—the kind that comes only when we’ve loved deeply. I often fear that when I love deeply, I risk feeling the pain of loss too, making me hold back in relationships to protect myself.
Their story taught me that loving deeply is not something to fear; it allows us to experience the beauty of life’s fullness. In the depths of their loss, Nathan and Theresa discovered new depths of love—for life and for each other. Their healing wasn’t just about accepting life as it was, but about daring to hope again. It didn’t happen in an instant, but in the in-between—through honesty, vulnerability, and the quiet decision to keep going.
Their journey of loss shows that love, especially when chosen through pain, does not shortchange us.
Not every story ends in ‘happily-ever-after.’ Amanda and Scott, despite their passion and ‘soulmate’ spark, fall apart when one stops choosing the relationship. It’s a painful reminder that love requires more than intense feelings. It needs mutual effort—and sometimes, to love is to let go.
The in-between is where love is tested and strengthened. As the movie reminds us, “Life is hard and unpredictable enough; you need someone who’s really in it with you.”
What truly elevated Worth the Wait for me was its portrayal of family—the first place we learn what love is, and sometimes, what it isn’t. The film dives into the raw, honest, and all-too-real realities that shape us long before we seek romantic love.
Curtis struggles to be a father. Theresa’s mother (Tan Kheng Hua) protects her the only way she knows how. Blake aches for the father figure he never had. Kai pleads with his dad, “Couldn’t you just say that you were proud of me?”
Knowing some of those longings all too well myself, I was deeply reminded of the weighty role of our parents on one’s identity and self-worth. Yet, I was moved by the restoration of relationships in the film—offering hope to anyone who’s ever felt the same.
These stories reveal how our earliest relationships define love; its possibilities and its limitations. They expose the wounds, the yearning, the resilience we carry into adulthood. Yet within each character’s struggles lie a sense of hope. The film shows that reconciliation is possible, that redeeming family narratives and patterns can lead to healing, and that the love of those who step in can be as transformative as the love we once lost.
In family’s embrace—or its absence—we first grasp the weight and power of love.
Worth the Wait doesn’t offer easy answers. It offers something better: a raw, authentic portrayal of love and life in all its complexity. It invites us to confront our own brokenness and life’s messiness. It reminds us that the beauty lies in the fight; in the hard moments where love is tested and proven true and where choosing to stay becomes an act of courage.
This is a film for anyone who has loved deeply, lost painfully, or is simply searching for a story that reflects human experience.
If you’re ready to laugh, cry, and feel everything in between, Worth the Wait is a story you won’t want to miss. It’s not a fairy tale, but it’s the kind of love story that stays with you.
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